A Study in Indirectly Hostile Self-Defense
This football publication is curiously dull, yet oddly irresistible. Its title causes confusion. The Dear England title currently names a hit theatrical production, an future television program, and a national address written by Gareth Southgate in 2021.
This edition of Dear England isn’t officially related to any of those. It represents an oddity in the Dear England Multiverse, a book about guidance: a traditionally dry elite football manager theme that Southgate adheres to doggedly, relying on the words “leadership”, “leading” or “management” at least 500 times across 336 pages.
Questions Explored
“What defines a leader? What actions do leaders take? And what do leaders know?” Southgate inquires at the outset, setting out his stall, but choosing not to address “Why are leaders?”, questions probably set aside for a second book.
Beyond that, this publication features a book-shaped hole in the middle. It’s an exercise in indirectly hostile self-justification, in coming close without actually stating the actual thing, skipping nimbly from lingering grievance to fresh pain across a series of pie charts, business clichés and discussions about Thomas Cromwell.
Immersion
Going through the book is like eavesdropping on your loved ones having a mannered but deeply felt debate in the nearby area while you’re striving to pay attention on a corporate presentation titled “112 Reasons Why Naturally I Had the Last Laugh”. But it is also difficult to disengage, as the author keeps approaching to something you genuinely want to discover, before abruptly veering away.
Disclosures
The book contains inevitably controversial revelations in works in this genre, such is the rapt fascination with leading the national team. The most striking instances are: he decided he was absolutely going to resign as England manager after supporters hurled containers at him at the Euros; he almost chose to abandoning the game at half-time against Bulgaria in 2019 after his players were subjected to racism; he invented the concept of dedicated restart experts and the entire league in the Premier League is now adopting his methods; he has now misplaced his enthusiasm for soccer, a shocking confession casually mentioned in a brief section at the final part.
Managing England through a era of fury, aspiration, upheaval and lockdown was a brutal journey. The wounds are evidently still fresh.
Generic Content
In other sections, the narrative is flooded with an computer-generated word-sludge of commonplace management talk. Copies of this book were shared with journalists under confidentiality clauses before publication, likely out of concern someone might leak that “difficult conversations can, by their very essence, be tough”, that you should always think before you act, that leadership occurs where transformation intersects with understanding.
Emotional Core
There is however genuine feeling here. Guiding England through a era of rage, hope, turmoil and confinement was a grueling ordeal. The scars are evidently still unhealed, albeit presented in a buzzword-filled reinvention of the traditional coach story: demonstrating my accuracy about each issue from the start.
Specific Examples
Even publication’s initial chapter, disguised as exciting recollections of the final of Euro 2024, is completely dedicated to how successful Southgate really was at substitutes (the big Southgate gripe being he wasn’t effective at altering the lineup). Later, he explores extensive analysis about how he handled the Euros final of 2021 perfectly – notably the failed tiebreaker – because he followed a established procedure, which suggests that bringing on inexperienced squad members in the closing stages to take the biggest kick of their careers was reasonable and correct.
That approach was confirmed by a successful shootout against Switzerland in a subsequent competition after a fixture where England spent the entire match looking as if they were attempting to don a sweater the wrong way round. “The control we exerted in that tiebreaker was absolutely thrilling,” Southgate states, while comparing the display to elite military units eliminating Osama bin Laden. Goodness.
Avoided Revelations
When we do get close to a revelation, he retreats from specifying people or sharing the substance. We discover there were problematic England squad members who demanded more focus, maybe because they were spoilt during the beginning of their careers. But as you lean forward hopefully, Southgate is already shifting into something named a specific management theory, which states that as opposed to a collection of attributes or principles, culture is in fact an element that is formed by, unfortunately, enough, no more.
Notable Sections
Included in the more compelling bits are when he writes about the incremental method of fostering resilience in youth, or how he tried to define what it means to be English more clearly and more positively than anyone else in the limelight. The standout section, there is a genuinely absorbing narrative of that distressing night in the Bulgarian capital where England’s black players were subjected to vile treatment (and subsequently supported forcefully by their leader).
Genuine Ending
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